能给你的真正安全感的最好证明，就是那个人能让你随时打扰

结婚不是人生的必答题，它更像是一张试卷最后一道附加题，答对了加分，不回答不扣分。

Marriage is not necessarily the answer of life. It is more like the last additional question of a test paper. If you answer the question correctly, you will get no deduction.

为什么小说电影里的人都坚强又洒脱？

因为作者常常大笔一挥白驹过隙，翻一页，起新章，她千帆过尽，往事随风。

你的每个夜晚却要自己慢慢熬，上帝在一分钟里给你十个机会软弱，却怎么都等不到那一句“许多年以后……”

Why are people in fiction and movies strong and free?

Because the author often spends a lot of time flipping through the gap, turning over a page, starting a new chapter, she sailed away, past events follow the wind.

You have to slow down every night. God gives you ten weak opportunities in a minute, but you can't wait for the phrase "Many years later..."

你离开的一瞬间，就像崩断了一个拉扯很久的弦，我以为我会失魂落魄，会惊慌失措，可我却是松了口气，我再也不用担心了。

The moment you left, it was like breaking a string that had been pulling for a long time. I thought I would lose my soul and panic, but I was relieved. I didn't have to worry any more.

你走过的每一条弯路，其实都是必经之路。你永远都无法借别人的翅膀，飞上自己的天空。

Every detour you take is actually the only way to go. You can never borrow the wings of others to fly into your own sky.

别傻了，这世上 只有破镜，没有重圆，只有和好，没有如初。

Don't be silly, there are only broken mirrors, no reunion, only reconciliation, not as before.

没有不可治愈的伤痛， 没有不能结束的沉沦，所有失去的，会以另一种方式归来。

There is no irreparable pain, no irreversible sinking, all lost will come back in another way.

昨天上班时间，我装着西服站在二楼窗前看着路上来来往往的人们。觉得城市里天空太窄，忽然想回家种地。可是离我退休年龄还很遥远。我的影子说想杀死我，然后替代我好好生活。

Yesterday at work, I stood in front of the second floor window in my suit and watched people coming and going on the road. Feeling that the sky is too narrow in the city, I suddenly want to go home and plant land. But it's still a long way from my retirement age. My shadow says it wants to kill me and live a good life instead of me.

一段关系能给你的真正安全感的最好证明，就是那个人能让你随时打扰。

The best proof of a relationship's true sense of security is that it allows you to be disturbed at any time.

那时的我们在一起，永远有着说不完的话题。也不知道是哪里出了错，灯突然灭了，喜欢你旳这些日子就像一本病历。祝我们再遇见，都能比现在过得更好。余生太长，你太难忘。

We were together at that time, and there were always endless topics to talk about. I don't know what's wrong. The lights suddenly went out. Those days when I like you are like a medical record. Wish us all a better life when we meet again. The rest of your life is too long for you to forget.